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Updates and Advice

We would like to provide you with updates on current issues affecting the school and/or children’s centre, as well as information that just can’t wait until the next newsletter! Some advice and guidance that we come across is too good not to share - we hope you find it interesting and useful.


Nursery World - Learning and Development - Digital Technology

We recently featured in an article in Nursery World magazine. The piece was written by Nicola, our Deputy Head, Camilla, our SENDCo and artist educator, Eloise. It’s a fascinating piece on how children at Balham Nursery School are embracing digital technology to work together on creative projects.

To read the full article, please click below:

Information and update on the merger of Balham Nursery School and Children’s Centre and Fayland Children’s Centre

We are delighted that, following the consultation on the merger of Balham Nursery School and Children’s Centre with Fayland Children’s Centre - we are now Balham Nursery School & Children’s Centre Services as of 1st October 2017.

This has been a complex process and there have been many things to consider when merging two settings. There is a lot to get through – and everyone has been working really hard to make this merger a success.

Let me reassure you, both children’s centres will remain open and continue to provide quality services for families living in the local areas. This is an exciting opportunity to re-shape our services and better meet the needs of our local communities. It will also mean the opportunity to work across three sites (including Nightingale Square) providing an increased variety of services for children and families.

We will be operating from 3 sites:

@Balham (72 Endlesham Rd, SW12 8JL)
@Fayland (Fayland Avenue SW16 1SY)
@Nightingale Square (House number 2, 42-44 Nightingale Square SW12 8QL)

As always, we run an ‘open door policy’ and are receptive to your ideas, comments and concerns. Our two Centre Managers are Sasha Sagoe and Tina Neal if you have anything you would like to discuss.

Advice and Guidance

When you want to say “be careful!” by Petra Eperjesi

The online version of this article (with some fantastic photos) is available at: http://childnature.ca/when-you-want-to-say-be-careful/

“Be careful!”
Saying (shouting) that can be such a knee-jerk reaction when we see children doing something that we perceive as dangerous. Just today, as a group of children moved further away from us and towards the edge of a big, rocky slope, three adults began to shout it, almost in unison. Sometimes there is real reason for alarm. Sometimes there isn’t. Working out the difference between the two is itself a subject for another blog post (or five).
But whether or not there is a high risk of injury at a given moment, what do we even mean when we say “Be Careful!”? It can mean, “I’m not sure what’s over there, please wait for me to come have a closer look with you”, or it can mean “slow down and watch where you’re putting your feet” when someone is running on uneven, unstable ground. It can mean, “move farther away from those other kids before you throw that rock!” or it can mean “focus on what you’re doing” when a child is making their way back down a tree.
In short, “Be careful!” can mean so much, but without the specific details, it can also be meaningless. (And when we hear something over and over and over again, we all start to tune out, don’t we?)
Here, some ideas about what we might say instead of (or in addition to) “Be Careful!”, organised according to Ellen Sandseter’s 6 categories of risky play:
Play with Great Heights (i.e. tree climbing)
• “Stay focused on what you’re doing.”
• “What is your next move?”
• “Do you feel safe there?”
• “Take your time.”
• “Does that branch feel strong and stable?”
• “I’m here if you need me.”
Play with Great Speeds (i.e. tag)
I usually find that it’s not so much the speed that gets my inner alarm bell going as what/who might be tripped over or crashed into! So, I often find myself pausing play at great speeds to say:
• “Please find a safe spot for your stick while you’re running.”
• “I’ve noticed that this is a really busy area and I’m worried that someone not playing this game might get knocked over. Watch out for other people and give them lots of space.” Or, “Let’s move to this lower-traffic zone.”
• “I’ve noticed that there are a lot of fallen trees and sticks to trip on here. Watch out!” or, “Should we move this game to a more open area?”
Play with Harmful Tools
It’s important to know your children really well, to have a designated tool zone in a low-traffic area, and to take things like time of day and general energy of your group into consideration before introducing tools like knives or saws to your students. But even things like rocks and sticks can be considered potentially harmful tools. We often say:
• “Sticks need space. Mike, please back up from Sarah. She’s holding a big stick!”
• “Sticks need space. Sarah, look around you – do you have enough space to swing that big stick?”
• “Please keep one end of your stick on the ground!”
• “What’s your plan with that big stick?”
• “Rocks need space!”
• “Find more space!”
• “Before you throw that rock, what do you need to look for?”
• “That rock looks really heavy! Can you manage it?”
Play near Dangerous Elements (i.e. water, fire, ice)
I think it is important to front load a lot of the conversation about how to be safe around a dangerous element, before children are near that dangerous element. Then the following phrases are more reminders and references to that initial, very focused conversation:
• “Please move slowly and carefully near the ___.”
• “Please give each other lots of space so that no one feels like they need to push, and no one gets knocked over by accident.”
• “Do you feel stable/ balanced?”
• “Do you need more space?”
Rough and Tumble Play
It took me some time, but I’ve come to see Rough and Tumble Play as a rich and authentic opportunity to learn about consent. I’ve found it helpful to pause the play and say:
• “Make eye contact before you tackle someone. Make sure they know you are coming so that they can get their body ready.”
• “Check in with each other. Make sure everyone is still having a good time.”
• “Ask her if she’s ok.”
• “Ask him if he’s still having fun.”
• “Did you like that? Make sure you tell her if you didn’t like that.”
Play where children can “disappear”/get lost
This is a trickier one for us, as we do ask children to stay where we can see them, so that we know if they need help. But children do so often want to hide, or find “shortcuts”, and there are lots of ways to make that possible and safe. This has to do with due diligence. Sometimes it’s possible for children to feel like they’re lost or that they’ve disappeared, without them being that way in truth. Here are some ways to facilitate that feeling of being unseen for a while:
• “If you need to run, meet me at the next trail marker!”
• “Let’s check this cave/ fort to make sure it’s safe to hide in.”
Sometimes intervening verbally as in the ways suggested above still doesn’t calm that gut feeling that something is too risky. Stay tuned for a future blog post about dynamically assessing risk, and including children in that process…

Our current "Wish List"

Are you able to donate any of the following?

Any spare/old digital cameras.
Any fabric/material off cuts/wool.
Any paper/card
Sand buckets/spades/wheels
“Matey” bottles
Any child friendly CD players
A Karcher pressure washer
A wooden bench for outside (for adults and children to sit and share books)